Is there a developer, that could build me a new member management system, that I could use to manage my members, that could send updates over to the new terrible system that CC is rolling out?
I imagine something in a mySQL database with a user signup interface for new users so I can bypass CC.
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I'm also sorry to hear about your frustrations with the new Contact Management system. Are there any specific areas that frustrate you more than others or are problematic to you? I'd love to hear some more specific feedback to pass on to that team.