Hello @user275007 ,
For this in-depth of a dive into your website's functionalities, I'd strongly recommend speaking directly with our Website Builder team. That way they'll be able to work with you live 1:1, as well as screenshare if necessary.
I completely agree! Same issues and the website developers don't fix this when you talk to them. They send it up the chain and then it's still not fixed. It's frustrating. I don't want to start over either but this is hurting my business too!