Sorry to hear of the issues you're having with using the tool for Outlook, but I'm glad you reached out for assistance with it. You can find an overview on how to use this tool here. If Constant Contact looked different it could be that the tutorial you saw was for our older user interface instead of the newer ToolKit interface that you have with your account.
I hope the information you find at this links will help with the add-in!
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