Since it appears your updating Constant Contact from your own database, can you just clear the existing list and then reload the list without your DNS contacts? Just do that everytime it changes.
I think that is what I'm going to be doing because everytime my users send an email, it will be to a different list/segment of contacts that they generate from my system so I'll just be dumping temporary lists into contant contact and then removing that list.
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