Bless your heart, Tanya.  I don't know how long it's been since you lost your son, but I know the pain never goes away, and "closure" is a myth.  What helps, I'm convinced, is doing exactly what you're doing -- seeking the comfort of others who know exactly the sorrows you experienced, and doing something so positive to help others and save lives.  I'm sure the recent holiday season was difficult, but please take solace in the good that you're doing, and using his memory to celebrate his life.  Ginny Connect the Dots 501(c)(4) ... View more